How much are you loved?

How many times have you cried longing to be loved? You are keen about how much you are loved, particularly by your special ones. On the other hand, are you aware that not everyone is so interested about every layer of your emotional needs ? And no one really has the time to alter their feelings about you to the extent you rawly imagine on your own mind.

We often feel like a loser and the most hateable to our loved ones when we see ourselves as a weak person. We imagine that a friend or a colleague value us less, which, in no way gets counted as a worthy part of their busy day’s thought process.

For instance, you do not deeply judge a person by a mere mistake that happened accidentally. It is just a flash of an information for seconds or minutes after which you resume back to your work. You really don’t spend hours to dig deep into the issue to judge that friend and accuse as the most terrible person on earth. Clearly, others don’t judge you that way too. In reality, they don’t have time for the drama directed by your brain. However, we are wired to imagine a perspective of others that is purely a creative art of our brain, resulting in a deep pain and channelizing negativity to our emotions.

It’s not an easy joke to stabilize our feelings, until we have realised our fullest potential. Just like an Olympic medalist, once a champion we are forever a champion for our brains. Yes, once you surprise your brain with an image of what you are best capable of, it actively starts believing your potential. Right from that point, it commences to prove that your perspective is right. Interestingly, it indulges in humor and happy sequences that keeps you going on with your life, never minding about your beliefs about how others feel about you. This point is where the twin birth of confidence and trust occurs. At this verge, you feel that you are the most loved and respected by your own mind and also by others. Truly, this is when you start trusting yourself subconsciously.

There is an ultimate pleasure in the self-love that starts sprouting from then on. This self love starts engraving blissful happiness in your heart, which subsequently becomes the root cause for millions around you to fall in love with your nature.

Again, it’s a reminder, you are valued according to what you believe as others believe about you.